Sometimes we give something up because God asks us to, but at the time we don’t even know just how costly our choice of obedience will turn out to have been. With great anguish we sacrifice something for him, only to find out later that the sacrifice we made was even bigger than we realised – that the consequences are more numerous and more painful than we saw coming.
God doesn’t always act with our informed consent. He doesn’t always give us all the information before asking us to do something.
Perhaps this is for our good.