When someone has hated you, to see them express love and compassion towards others is always stained with a tinge of disbelief, a dismissive scepticism.

What good is their love for all those people if they refused to love you?

But then you have to ask the same question of yourself.

Counterfeit peace is when something is wrong, but you say nothing, and pretend everything is right to avoid strife in the relationship.

Counterfeit peace is when you value your relationship to a person more than you value the person.